Paper Writing Services – Sexual Disconnect

Paper Writing Services – Sexual Disconnect

Paper Writing Services – Sexual Disconnect

Paper Writing Services

Sexual Disconnect

James and Yelena have been married for 22 years and have three grown children, now out of the

house. Sex was never particularly enjoyable for Yelena, primarily because James was

uninterested in much foreplay and Yelena felt it was unfeminine to make any sexual demands of

her husband. However, because of her love for James, she accommodated his desire for sex two

or three times a week, and consistently “faked orgasms.”

James also does not think “a real man” should receive any “help” from his wife to get an

erection, even when his erections became less firm and less predictable. As a result, over the last

two years, James rarely initiated sex and Yelena felt relieved, thinking she would now be

“excused from sex.” Furthermore, she is in perimenopause, and has begun to experience

increasingly uncomfortable penetration. Suddenly, James’ vigor and sexual interest has returned

with greater intensity than ever. Yelena discovered he was secretly taking Viagra, which he

obtained over the Internet.

 Discuss how effective you think Viagra will be for improving James' sex life, and why?

 Suppose Yelena’s discovery that James is using Viagra secretly is the “last straw” for her

after years of not addressing her unsatisfying sexual life with him, and she demands that

they seek marriage counseling and focus on their sex life.

In this case:

o What part of this dilemma should a counselor point out is Yelena’s responsibility

to acknowledge and address? Additionally, what special issues regarding her

perimenopause will need to be addressed?

o What part of this dilemma should a counselor point out is James’ responsibility to

acknowledge and address?

 Discuss specific treatment options for this couple that are supported by the research you

learned about in your readings.

Due Wednesday, November 12, 2014. Your response should be at least 3 pages long, not

counting the cover page and reference page.

Assignment 2 Grading Criteria Maximum

Discussed how effective Viagra woud be for improving

James' sex life, and why. 20

Explained what aspect of this dilemma should be Yelena’s

responsibility to acknowledge and address, and, what special

issues regarding her perimenopause will need to be

addressed.

Explained what aspect of this dilemma should be is James’

responsibility to acknowledge and address. 20

Points

20

Discussed specific treatment options for this couple that are

supported by research. 20

Wrote in a clear, concise, and organized manner;

demonstrated ethical scholarship in accurate representation

and attribution of sources; displayed accurate spelling,

grammar, and punctuation.

Total: 100

20

 

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Sexual Disconnect

James has erectile dysfunction problems and after taking the drugs his sexual appetite has

improved and his sexual interest has returned after taking the drug. These practical details prove

that Viagra or sildenafil citrate will help James to improve his sex life as it will solve his problem

of erection. He already is facing problems of weak and un-predictive erections and the usage of

Viagra can definitely help him to treat his erectile problems. He may become sexually active

again and enjoy a happy sex life. Viagra can help James to deal with his erectile dysfunction, but

it may not be able to help the sexual life of James and Yelena because again Yelena will continue

to fake her orgasms as she has been doing from past 22 years. She is facing perimenopause and

James sudden hyperactive sexual demands because of Viagra will not solve Yelena’s problems

of getting an orgasm or uncomfortable penetration. At the same time, Viagra may not be able to

bring the couple close and help them to discuss their sexual issues. This part can be done either

by themselves or they can seek counseling to get proper help in this regard.

Here, one point to be considered is if Yelena and James seek sexual counseling what

would be the advice to be given to Yelena from the counselor’s point of view. The counselor

may advice Yelena to first acknowledge her responsibilities and address the same. James may

have needed some help to get sexually excited or to gain erection, but Yelena did no help James

in this regard. In fact, she was happy about the “rest” period because she no longer had to suffer

uncomfortable penetration. The counselor can advice her about the role in exciting James and

using foreplay to help James gain erection. It does appear that Yelena did not participate in the

overall sexual activity wholeheartedly and therefore could not get satisfaction. Similarly, James

also expected some kind of efforts from Yelena, but it was against his manliness to ask or take

Yelena’s help. The counselor may advice Yelena to understand the requirements of James and

help him with foreplay and extra love to gain erection in a natural manner.

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